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Printed correspondence or blog post/article (part of house oversight investigation)
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Summary
This document appears to be a printout of a personal blog post or email narrative submitted to the House Oversight Committee. The text details the author's romantic interactions with a man nicknamed 'Mr. Chastity' who has taken a vow of celibacy, discussing sexual politics, masculinity, and BDSM. The second half of the document shifts to the author's professional perspective as an HIV educator in Africa, critiquing the 'ABC' (Abstinence, Being faithful, Condoms) approach and discussing the difficulties of behavioral change.
People (2)
| Name | Role | Context |
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| Narrator | Author |
Female author working as an HIV educator in Africa; discussing a romantic interest and her job.
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| Mr. Chastity | Romantic Interest |
A man the narrator is communicating with who has taken a 'vow' of abstinence/chastity.
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Organizations (1)
| Name | Type | Context |
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| House Oversight Committee |
Implied by the footer 'HOUSE_OVERSIGHT_018583' indicating this document is part of a congressional investigation.
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Timeline (2 events)
Relationships (1)
Narrator discusses meeting him, making out, hoping he visits, and speculating if he could be the 'love of my life'.
Key Quotes (5)
"I rather admire you for challenging yourself & social expectations of masculinity."Source
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"I think a man who wants to abstain has a far trickier journey ahead of him than a woman"Source
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"And maybe, just maybe, his vow allows him to practice BDSM... a girl can dream, right?"Source
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"In Africa, the mantra for HIV educators is ABC: the three things that protect against HIV/ AIDS are Abstinence, Being faithful, and Condom usage."Source
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"HIV prevention in Africa is less about sharing knowledge, now, and more about marketing"Source
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I wrote back:
I think it's adorable that you told me the vow thing by text- & on a serious note, I rather admire you for challenging yourself & social expectations of masculinity. I can't afford exegesis of my sexual history by text; we can talk about it when you visit- which I hope you do, even if you insist on sleeping on the floor. I promise not to push you- though I confess I'm curious about the vow's limits. But I also understand if you don't feel comfortable coming down.
His relief, in our next few exchanges, was palpable. I think a man who wants to abstain has a far trickier journey ahead of him than a woman: America's sexual assumptions may be formed around stereotypical male sexuality -- which really sucks for women -- but it's a very narrow stereotype that limits men too. Men are expected to be insatiable, and preferring not to have sex casts a man's entire masculinity into question. His abstinence can cause anxiety for the female partner, too: after all, given an assumption that men are nigh-indiscriminate sex machines, a woman might feel that there's something terribly wrong with her if a man won't bang her.
Mr. Chastity has dealt with those problems a lot, so my careful reaction and evident lack of anxiety won me lots of points. Since then, I've met up with him publicly twice, and we've even managed to make out! He's still going to visit. Maybe I can convince him to sleep in bed, as long as I promise not to put the moves on him.
And maybe, just maybe, his vow allows him to practice BDSM... a girl can dream, right? But seriously, if we can do BDSM together, then I just might be his dream partner. I'd be happy to focus our sexual time on BDSM and foreplay, and to ignore "actual" sex indefinitely. Plus, some people argue that declining to sate ourselves sexually is the best tactic for prolonging romantic magic. So this could be the way for Mr. Chastity to become the love of my life.
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In Africa, the mantra for HIV educators is ABC: the three things that protect against HIV/ AIDS are Abstinence, Being faithful, and Condom usage. But my job is much more complicated than passing out condoms and wagging my finger. The problem isn't so much that people don't know how to avoid HIV, although myths and misconceptions do exist. The problem is that people don't seem willing to change their behavior in order to protect themselves... or that they don't feel they have the power to change their behavior.
People can't just know about condoms -- they must prioritize condom usage despite drawbacks like loss of pleasure or pressure from their partners. People can't just know that HIV is sexually transmitted -- they must be psychologically open to abstaining from sex despite drawbacks that are, well, obvious. HIV prevention in Africa is less about sharing knowledge, now, and more about marketing: giving people a new perspective on sex, their health, and their futures.
Of course, I'm totally psyched about marketing some of these social aspects, like gender equality. (Gender equality is an HIV/AIDS issue for lots of reasons -- the most obvious being that the less power women have, the less they control their own sexual acts.) But others give me pause. Abstinence? Seriously? It sticks in my craw. Obviously, I don't
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